Wednesday, June 18, 2025

 OP Mahendran passed away


My neighbour in Jalan Wira 4, Taman Perwira Dua, passed away this morning 10 July 2016. He has been sick for a long time. He lived alone in the big house, cared for only by his Indonesian maid. His wife was American and lives in the USA with their children. 

Tuesday, May 17, 2016

Muslim in ICU

My first cousin on mother's side, Muslim bin Mohamad, 71, is in ICU at the new Shah Alam Hospital. He had lung infections that caused difficulty in breathing. Let's pray for his recovery.

Monday, June 8, 2015

Akak Tik Passed Away

My cousin, Tik bt Madon passed away at 2 pm today at her home in Taman Uda Jaya, Johor Bahru, after a long illness. She was 92 years old. My sister Zainab, long deceased, was of the same age as her. Alfatihah.

Monday, May 4, 2015

Safely Home

We left LHR on Sunday 3 May at noon by MAS Airbus 380 MH 003.  It was an uneventful flight and we got to KLIA at 7:50 am on Monday 4 May after a 12+ hours flight.  Going through Check In at Heathrow was fast because in our group we had two wheelchair users.  That's the trick next time, if we need speedy treatment.

The only problem experienced was at the VAT Claims where Bobby and Nani were unable to claim VAT because they didn't have the Customs Declaration form for some of the goods and service bought.  Reason: the salesperson didn't give them one to fill up saying it was not necessary.  So, one lesson learnt.

Sunday, May 3, 2015

Aina came to visit

Aina Kadir, Ham's niece who has been working in London for many years, came to visit us today Saturday 2 Apr. She came around noon and we had lunch together. She obviously enjoyed the home cooking by Ham. Aina is an IT consultant, although all the while I thought she was an accountant (probably because she started work with PwC.)  We had a good time together and she left to catch the train to London all too soon at 6:00 pm. Here's Aina doing a selfie.


Friday, May 1, 2015

Relaxing today

Not doing much today Thursday 30 Apr. Returned the X-Trail to Enterprise Car Hire and got refund of GBP 200. So now the X-Trail hiring was actually GBP 331 for 1 week. Divide by 5, that's about GBP 66 or RM 364 each. Not bad.

Eton, Nani and Bobby are leaving for London tomorrow morning. Our friendly Pakistani taxi driver Mr Kazim, has agreed to take them to the Holiday Inn, Camden Town for GBP 140.  Ham and I will leave for LHR early Sunday 3 May morning from Ida's place for our flight back to KLIA at 12:00 hrs. Ida will drive us to LHR. Eton and party will make their own way to LHR.

Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Visiting Cardiff

Ida had a day off Tuesday 28 Apr.  So she took them to Cardiff to have some seafood, teh tarik and a climb up Cardiff castle. No shopping apparently. Cardiff is a city up the Bristol Channel on the west coast. It's just over an hour away from Stroud.




Shopping again

Gloucester had a factory outlet too called the Gloucester Quays. Got there after lunch on Sunday 26 Apr by GPS postcode of course. Spent about 4 hours there.  I bought an educational toy for Soraya and some shirts. The girls were disappointed, however; not too many designer labels.  So next day Monday 27 Apr we went to Swindon Designer outlet where Nani had a grand time. I wonder how she's going to carry all those handbags she bought. Probably will have to buy another suitcase. I only bought a bow tie and some shirts for the boys.

Before all this shopping we visited Windsor castle, the Queen's occasional weekend residence. Arrived just in time for the Changing of the Guards ceremony. That was at 11:30 am.  After lunch Nani, Bobby and I decided to tour the castle. Ham and Eton sat it out. Nice big place.




The crooked house of Windsor near the castle next to the Museum





Visiting Phil's Parents in Birmingham

On Saturday 25 Apr we had an invitation by Phil's parent to visit and have dinner with them at their house in Birmingham.  The girls wanted to do some shopping also.  So we left early 11:00 am heading for the latest shopping mall called the Resort World by Genting. Yes, Genting our Malaysian casino multinational. But it was not to be; it's not quite ready yet.  So we settled for the Bullring, an ugly armadillo like shopping mall, where Selfridges had an outlet. Quite an interesting place, though.


We left the Bullring around 5:30 pm to drive to Jenny & Peter Gordon's (Phil's parents) place some half hour into the suburbs.  They also had a makeover; lovely modern kitchen, dining area and patio. Peter said landscaping the garden is his next project.







Longleat and Stonehenge

Having got the 5-seater Nissan X-Trail we decided to make full use of it. So on Friday 24 Apr, we motored down to Longleat (famed for its collection of wild animals.) It was quite a drive with the GPS taking us along narrow farm roads to finally arrive at the entrance of the Animal Safari Park on the ETA given. It was nice to drive through the property with the animals roaming free but ignoring us completely. And of course the handphone cameras got busy.



After lunch at Longleat we drove off to Stonehenge about 1 hr east (near Amesbury) in the Salisbury plains.  Stonehenge had a makeover; now it's got an Exhibition Centre, a shuttle bus service from the Centre, gift shop and restaurant (of course.) Lovely. When I came way back in the '80 there was nothing of this sort.







Family visit to Ida's new house

Ida and Phil bought a house last year. We were so pleased and Ham wanted to visit.  So we decided on a late April 2015 visit, hoping that it'd be quite warm then.  Eton, Nani (Awang's wife) and Bobby (Eton's son) came with us to make a group of 5.

Ida picked us up at London Heathrow (LHR) airport on the 21st April at Terminal 4. The Airbus 380 MH 004 was quite full and going through Immigration took quite a bit of time.  We emerged at 6 something to be greeted by Ida who had waited since 2 hours earlier. We then piled into the 7 seater Alhambra (Spanish) van for the drive to Stroud.  It was still daylight; sunset being around 8:30 pm.

Eton had booked a flat in Stroud at the Bell House.  Quite a nice place and close to Tesco (by car) and the railway station (by foot.)

Ham and I stayed with Ida at her place called Hillside (no house number) in The Edge on a no-name road (one moves around by GPS using Postcodes in England, just like being in a kampung in Malaysia except for the Poskod bit.) Her place is 4x4 country really with farms all round. Good thing Enterprise car-hire gave us a 4x4. And the view from her lounge is stunningly picture perfect.



We needed a car to move around, so on 23 Apr we hired a Nissan X-Trail 4x4. Actually we just needed an automatic but they had only this 4x4 for the same price at GBP 148 per week.  Add full insurance cover and another driver, the cost finally came to GBP 531.

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Saedah passed away

Ham's niece, Saedah bt Puteh, passed away last night around 01:30 am at Hospital Tuanku Bainun, Ipoh.  She was suffering from breast cancer.  Funeral is today before zohor.


Monday, August 11, 2014

Soraya's Picnic

Soraya was taken by parents Zaki and Sabrina to Kuantan staying at Raja Badrina's resort home on the beach.  It was Sabrina's family outing over the weekend (8-9 Aug 2014.)  From the pictures below, Soraya obviously enjoyed herself.  And when she came for her day-care today, she was unusually "talkative" like as if she wanted to tell us all about it.








Hamidah passed away


Dukacita dimaklumkan Hajah Hamidah bt Umar (64) -- anak saudara Hamsiah -- dan isteri kepada Mej (Bersara) Hj Alias bin Bachek telah kembali ke rahmatullah jam 1730 Sabtu, 09 Ogos 2014 di HUKM, disebabkan oleh breast cancer. Pengkebumian telah disempurnakan sebelum zohor hari Ahad 10 Ogos 2014 di Tanah Perkuburan Jalan Karak, Batu Caves. Bersamalah kita berdoa agar Allah meletakkan roh Allahyarham bersama mereka yg soleh lagi dikasihiNya. Takziah kita kepada Mej Hj Alias dan keluarga. Alfatihah.

Sunday, December 1, 2013

An Atuk at last

I am very happy. My life is now complete.  At 74, I am now a genuine datuk; a real Atuk or grandpa; although I have been a Johor Dato' since 1982.  It's a nice feeling having a descendant at last.

My No 1 son, Zaki's wife Sabrina gave birth to a healthy baby girl, Puteri Soraya, on Saturday 30 Nov 2013 at 11:56 am.  She weighed 3.11 kg (6.856 lb) at birth.  Both mother and baby are doing fine and have since been discharged from the Post Natal ward of the Sime Darby Medical Centre, Subang Jaya.

Here's a video (taken with my Galaxy Note II smartphone) of the baby and dotting grandma.


...and here's another video taken at Sabrina's father's house in 1Utama on Wednesday 4 Dec 2013.


and here's a few pictures of Soraya two months or so later:








Sunday, November 3, 2013

Dina had an operation

I came home from my Australian Outback 4x4 trip on  Friday 25 October. It was an exhausting trip, the most exciting part being the one week 1200+ km dune driving from Kulgera to Birdsville. It was... 

Whoa, this posting is not going to be about that trip. You can read all about it in my other blog Datomus Travel.

This posting is about the surprise that awaited me when I arrived home that Friday morning. I was told that Dina had an operation to remove both her ears because the cancer on one ear had spread to the other ear. Dina was no where around because I think she was feeling self conscious. Usually she would be there to greet me in her proud but manja way; but not this time. It was only late in the evening when I was leaving for Mama’s house that she made a silent appearance.
Upon seeing her I thought she looked a fright. And she kept her distance knowing that my reactions upon seeing her "new" look was rather unusual.  Of course I reconciled myself soon enough and accepted the fact that the operation was the best thing for her.  At least she is not an invalid with amputated arms or legs or anything like that.  And our love for her has not diminished. Really.

Dina is our cat.

Dina has been with us since 2004 when Becky, Zaki's Alice Smith schoolmate, had to uproot herself and didn't want Dina to go to SPCA. Dina have been spoilt by Becky's father quite a bit; and Becky thought we would be just right to take over. Dina was five years old then. Oh yes, Mek loved her and spoilt her further with extremely frequent brushings of her fur, monthly bath, shampoo, medical checks and healthy cat foods. 

Sure enough she took to living in a house with a garden being a lot more pleasant than the apartment she was used to. So she established her territory quite quickly and would survey her "realm" from the upstairs balcony every so often. The neighbourhood tomcats would also come a- calling quite often and on these visits there would be fierce fights. Being neutered she was not interested in procreation and fended off any attempts by the amorous tomcats that came around. After these fights she would suffer some scratches. I think it must have been on one of these fights that her ears got infected. In spite of medication, it got worse because of Dina's dislike to wearing the funnel collar that could have saved her from scratching her ears. How it became cancerous, I don't know. Suffice to say that this was the result of the biopsy tests of samples of her infection that was sent to Canada for analysis. So the Vet had to operate on her ears. All that cost Mek about RM 5,000.  

Afternote:  Since the operation, she had to go back and forth to the Vet hospital. Her condition deteriorated and finally Mek agreed for Dina to be put to sleep.

Monday, September 23, 2013

Why is my name Muslim?

I’ve always wondered why my father chose this name Mohd Muslim. It is normal, of course, to have the Mohd (for Mohamad) in front of the other name. But why Muslim? Well, one reason could be that he expected me to be pious, religious. Yeah, he did have the idea of sending me to Al Azhar Egypt and with that I’d come back to become an Imam like him, or become a Kadhi or better still, the State Mufti. However, I am glad that he didn’t do that (send me to Egypt) and instead readily agreed to have me join the FMC in Port Dickson and pursue my choice career in the newly formed Air Force.
The other reason could be to make me live up to that name. As a religious scholar himself, he must have been inspired by the famous scholars of the Hadith - Bukhari and Muslim. So naming me Muslim probably have something to do with his desire to make me pious, religious and well versed in Islam.
Related to that, I now could see that my father had visions of the future. I am now living in “his future” and I have seen the Islamic religion being misused for political expediency or to justify hatred between the two major sects - Sunni and Shi’a adherents. And also to justify the jihadist’s world view of the injustices done to the Muslims. Worst still, the Muslim world is way off the mark of being progressive, advanced in knowledge in science and technology; or the arts.
Now, Bukhari and Muslim were great Islamic scholars during the glory days of Islamic civilization where knowledge in science, mathematics, medicine, astronomy, architecture and the arts were renowned while the Europeans were still living in the dark ages. Unfortunately, all that changed with the decline of the various
Islamic empires due to corruption of thought and other excesses; and the rise of the European powers and their inventiveness using knowledge gained through efforts of the Islamic scholars whose books and writings were translated into their respective languages. Muslim scholarship, regrettably, retreated into fundamentalism with the rise of wahabism especially in Saudi Arabia. Thus the progressive Muslim society during the days of Bukhari and Muslim became regressive in the century of the Industrial Revolution.  Europe progressed while the Muslim world regressed (until today.)
God even endowed the Islamic countries with the precious commodities needed by the industries of the world -- oil and gas -- but unfortunately, greed and laziness made them “pawn” the wealth to western powers with the technology and financial shrewdness. The so-called knowledge transfer was ineffective at best and young Muslims failed to excel in spite of all the opportunities.
So my father probably had wanted me to know about Bukhari and Muslim and emulate them.  Seek knowledge, the kind of knowledge that the Muslims in those days were free to explore and exploit. Well, I do know about Bukhari and Muslim; and I have been to Bukhara where the Imam Bukhari mausoleum is found.  Imam Muslim, however, is from Nishapur, NE Iran. His grave is there too.
I love learning and believe that it’s never too late to learn.  Thus at this age (74+) I am proficient with the keyboard and up-to-date with the latest in ICT. I design and maintain websites and blogs that even some youngsters don’t do or don’t know how to. 

So I am living up to my name quite well, I think, except that the religious bit is a little wanting.

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Chin Peng is dead

Chin Peng died in Bangkok on Sept 16 just five weeks short to his 90th birthday on Oct 21. He was, of course, the MCP leader who wanted to take over Malaya when the Japanese surrendered in 1945. During the void before the BMA was instituted, the MPAJA – the military wing of the MCP --  took reprisal actions against the Malays whom they claim sided with the Japanese during the occupation.  My uncle, Hj Othman – Eton and Wok’s grandfather -- was whisked away into the jungle in the middle of the night and had not been seen or heard of since. And, of course, I had many friends and colleagues who died in the course of duty fighting the CTs during the Emergency years 1948-60 and the second “Emergency” that followed the May 13 riots until 1989.

Chin Peng
I can understand that the Chinese DAP supported the idea of bringing his body back for burial in Sitiawan.  He had many relatives in the DAP.  But for PAS and PKR (two Malay-based parties) to support it, saying that he was a hero fighting British colonialism, is simply stupid and unthinking; and ignorant of historical facts. Furthermore, did they not have relatives or friends in the military or police force that died or were maimed during the Emergency years because of Chin Peng? Didn’t these morons not have any feelings for the wives and children of those soldiers and policemen killed or were maimed because of Chin Peng? And Chin Peng or his real name Ong Boon Hua, was not even a Malaysian citizen!  But then the pro-Chin Peng sentiments are also being expressed even by MCA people; and worse still by PAS.  As Shamsul Akmar (The Mole Editor) said in his NST article Sunday 22 Sep 2013 “…there is no cure for imbecility.”

StupidPASwomen
I am glad PM Dato Seri Najib Tun Razak is firm in not allowing even his ashes to be brought into this country. He even told them that if they are so serious about it "take us to court."

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Malaysia turns 50

It’ll be a holiday this Monday 16 September 2013.  Malaysia turns 50 on that day.  Only two weeks ago we celebrated Merdeka (Independence) Day on 31 August.  It was a Saturday, and the Monday was not declared holiday in-lieu.
malaysia-at-50-Malaysia-Day_129_100_100 We used to celebrate both days on 31 August, until three years ago (2010) when the Opposition made some hue and cry about the people of Sabah and Sarawak should not be made to celebrate Malaya’s independence day instead of the day when they joined Malaya to form Malaysia on 16 September, 1963. 
So, there we are, another holiday for holiday-rich Malaysians.
For the Armed Forces, 16 September is Armed Forces Day when there would usually be a grand “trooping the colours” parade at Sungai Besi Camp; and various units in the country would have an Open Day.  atm-crest
That means the public could visit the units and see displays of weaponry, aircraft and ships at close quarters; and learn about the roles and functions of the Armed Forces. It’s not a holiday though. 
So now, what? Well, this year they’ll still celebrate their 80th anniversary and hold a parade and display at Dataran Merdeka, Kuala Lumpur on Sept 21.  Hooray!

Afternote:
Would you believe it. A Datuk Seri Dominic Andrew Dago who was involved in the discussion with the Cobbold Commission regarding the formation of Malaysia in 1963, said he suggested the name of the new country should be "Borbrusima," What a scream!

Monday, September 9, 2013

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This is a test of linking/exporting my handiwork regarding the Pudu Rotary Club's weekly newsletter eBerita1310 for the week of 9 Sep 2013.